Monthly Favorites: July

I thought I would share a few of my favorite things with you! This month has a summer theme, and each of these items are fresh and refreshing. We all need that in these sweltering July months!

ModCloth.com $53 "Catch of the Day" XS-XXL

ModCloth has recently expanded it's plus size line, and the choices are ADORABLE. They have many options that run from XS-XXL, and another line of 1X-4X (4X are fewer and further between). I've never ordered from Mod Cloth. What do you think of their products?

alexandani.com $28 Seahorse Bangle

I am a Rhode Islander, and so I am naturally obsessed with Alex and Ani. The charm bracelet company started in RI, and Rhodey women love them. I love that the bangles are small and elegant (not chunky - I'm looking at you, Pandora). I prefer slim, dainty jewelry, and Alex and Ani totally fits that bill.

I own this bangle and five others, in both the silver and gold finishes. They recycle, AND the bracelets are adjustable to fit ALL sizes.

OPI $8-10 Cozu-melted in the Sun

I love a bright polish as much as the next girl, but sometimes I just crave the freshness of a pinky-nude color. This color has a gorgeous splash of golden glisten and sparkle, and is a perfect natural pink shade.

simplybe.com $40 Midi Graffiti Skirt     8-28

I can't get over this skirt. A longer pencil skirt in a bright color AND a text print? Sign me up.

Apotheca Flowers and Tea Chest http://apothecaflowershoppe.com/

Being a teacher, I have some time off this summer. There are many reasons that I am happy to be back in NH, visiting with family... and Apotheca is definitely high on that list.

Apotheca is a tea/coffee/flower/gift/beauty shop that is THE ultimate place to get adorable things in Southern NH. I have art, lotion, perfumes, and a million other amazing items from there. It is a must visit whenever I am visiting home.

What are your favorite summer things? Share in the comments section!

Full Disclosure

I have gained a lot of weight recently. I moved to a new city, started my first year of teaching, and ate crap and junk. I went from being conscious of making healthier choices to saying "Screw It" and eating whatever I wanted.

I am a FIRM believer that people should enjoy life and enjoy food. If I want a burger, I am having a burger. However, making healthy choices is about enjoying food in a way that includes variety and reasonable portions. Not gorging on chips and fries and ice cream all the time. Which I've totally been doing.

This is a detriment to my health. And, I'll be honest here, a detriment to my wardrobe (which I currently am far more swayed by). My clothes are fitting tighter, or too tight. And my go-to sizes at stores are now uncomfortably snug. I am 6'3" and currrently a size 26. If I allow myself to get to a 28 or 30, I am SEVERELY limited my fashion choices.

So... screw that. Time to get my butt in gear.

I promise that this blog will never be a whiny fat-fit blog. I will never blog about drinking nothing but SlimFast or bemoan my carrot stick lunch. I am, however, a promoter of health and body acceptance. We should never be ashamed of our bodies, but I also am firmly against the bloggers out there who blindly turn away from medical research and claim that being obese has no ill-effects on the body. It does. Stop fooling yourself. However, do we all need to be below a size 10 to be healthy, fit, and happy? NO. Go for walks and jogs, dance, and eat some leafy greens. It does a body good.

I will keep you up-to-date about my progress as I start this summertime journey. Rarely. I promise. More fashion that fitness.

Current Measurements:
Bust: 52.5
Small Waist: 50.5
Belly Button Belly:  58
Hips: 59
Thighs: 34

"The Heat" and My Not-So-Secret Crush on Melissa McCarthy

I know, I know. I'm not exactly original. We fatshionistas friggin' LOVE us some Melissa McCarthy. She's plus-sized. She's gorgeous. She's hilarious. She's unashamed. What's not to love?




Melissa McCarthy is my idol. Long before I had aspirations to be a teacher, a writer, or a singer... I longed to be on SNL and be a comedian. I'm pretty funny, and I'm great at characters. I wanted to get paid (however terribly) to be funny. I wanted to be a professional silly person.

But, when I say that Melissa McCarthy is my idol, I mean it in every facet of her humanoid form. I mean that she's found an equally funny husband and is raising funny kids. That she's a down-to-earth person who everyone loves to be around. That she's becoming wildly successful at a job that she loves.
That she is a friggin' fox and has an amazing stylist (nn her own SNL words: She's "primarily in a Croc"). And yes, because she is living out my awkward tweenage fantasy life.

So, yes. I went to see The Heat. Melissa could star in a movie called "This Movie Blows (No, Really)" and I would still pay good money to see it. I was not disappointed. The commercials for The Heat were pretty bad: classic mismatched buddy cop, Mulder/Scully, set-up with some decent soundbites. It looked okay. The reviews were oddly strong for a lackluster set of commercials, but I had faith in my lady love. She'd be hilarious, no matter what.

I. Friggin'. Loved. It.

Okay, yes. It was a class mismatched buddy cop flick. But who cares? The genre works because IT WORKS. I laughed, I got a little teary-eyed, and I cheered when someone got shot in the nuts. It wasn't until my 20 minute drive home that I started to think about why I loved it.

Here is my list of Reasons Why The Heat Was Actually Really Good:

1.  It's about 2 very different, but believable, women who act like believable women and never fall into stupid, stereotypical femme tropes. No nail-painting. No makeover scene. Wait, there was a makeover scene. But it was the least girly thing I've ever seen (Melissa's Mullins character hacks Sandra's Ashburn character's pantsuit to shreds with a big ol' pair of scissors).  They bond over kicking ass and struggling to get to know each other. There's no weepy girly crap.

... nice... makeover.... Sandra. You look awesome... really....

2. Every minor character was hilarious. It didn't matter if the character had 2 lines or 20. The minor characters were all amazingly well-cast and hilarious. Jane Curtin as Mrs. Mullins had about 5 lines, but her facial expressions stole every scene she was in. Michael McDonald was a hilarious, but still scary, bad guy. Kaitlin Olson ("Dee" from It's Always Sunny) made me laugh riotously as the Bulgarian drug distributor. And Michael Rappaport and Joey McIntire make requisite appearances as Mullins' heavily Boston-accented brothers.

3. Sandra Bullock and Melissa McCarthy have become friends since filming, and their enjoyment is evident on the screen. They fit together like peanut butter and jelly.



4. Badass chicks with a whole lotta guns.

5.  A small part of me was waiting for FBI agent Sandra / Ashburn to pull out her pageant gown.

Lookin' sharp.

According to IMDB, there is already a sequel in the mix... Right on!

Cat-iversary and Birthday!

I may be a crazy cat lady, but... Nope, I've got nothing.

Happy 6 months to Walter and Zooey. I adopted you two from Best Friends Animal Society, a program in Utah that I support wholeheartedly. I may live across the country, but Best Friends is an amazing program and worth your attention.

"Best Friends Animal Sanctuary

At the heart of Best Friends is the Sanctuary, where, at any given time, about 1,700 animals are turning their lives around, receiving the medical help they need, and getting love and acceptance to help them overcome their past. While searching for their forever homes, they live in a scenic, healing environment among human and animal friends.

Best Friends owns nearly 3,700 acres, and we lease another 17,000 acres of state and federal land. Nearly 30,000 people visit every year to meet the animals and tour what has become the nation's largest no-kill sanctuary for companion animals"

Walter and Zooey are the greatest cats. They're friendly and sweet, love bellyrubs, and are ceaselessly entertaining. I chose them because they were a bonded pair (a couple that have a strong relationship that should be adopted together). Bonded pairs are incredibly hard to adopt out, as most people are looking for one addition to the family. They arrived to me just in time for New Year's Eve 2012 - six months ago at the end of July! Also, they were born in July, which makes this their birthday month!

Join in me in wishing my 2 darlings a happy Annibirthsary, and donate to Best Friends Animal Society here!

Walter takes a snooze in his favorite spot.

Zooey's PINK PAWTOES!

Zooey (back) and Walter, seated on my stomach and STARING AT ME WHEN I WOKE UP.

Walter and me on a lazy Saturday. 

Tattoo-spiration

Tattoos are freaking awesome.  I have 4 tattoos myself: one on my ankle, one quarter sized tat on each inner wrist, and a text tattoo on my upper back shoulders. I love them. I want more. Tattoos truly are as addicting as they are proposed to be.

Quote from The Catcher in the Rye, about education. Definitely on my list.

I have a specific love for text and literary tattoos. As an English teacher, writer, and lover of books; I find myself obsessed with how people imprint meaningful words onto their skin. I pour over literary tattoo website (like Contrariwise and The Word Made Flesh). I make lists of quotes that I find particularly meaningful, whether in their message or their source. 

From Shel Silverstein's "Invitation" poem. My personal favorite.

My back tattoo is simply the word "Words". I think it perfectly summarizes my greatest love (...words...), and serves as a jumping off point for a life-long tattoo project. I am going to fill my back with meaningful text tattoos. They will be different sizes and at different angles, overlapping and creating texture. I'm incredibly excited and terribly nervous to begin.

Abso-fucking-lutely brilliant.

What quotes are the most meaningful to you? Would you get a tattoo, or specifically a text tattoo?

"Paris Thin"

I stumbled across this article this morning, and it brought together so many mixed emotions for me. 

1.     

    This article does not share much in the way of "breaking news". We've known well and good that fashion houses, photographers, and editors are demanding impossible thin-ness from the European and American models. An ounce of weight is too much, and girls wear their symptoms as a badge of honor. 

    I found this quote to be particularly frightening: 

    "By the end of the trip, she didn't have the energy to even sit up; she could barely open her eyes. We actually had her lie down next to a fountain to get the last shot."

A gorgeous, way-too-thin, model

2. 

    I hate body-shaming. There are naturally thin women who are being berated and labeled "anorexic" due to their naturally willowy frames. I have petite friends who are a size 2 and a much taller friend who dons a size 6. Neither one is crippled with an eating disorder, and both are lovely. They eat, they exercise, they have thin parents and grandparents. Good genes happen. But they don't usually happen in the form of a 6 foot size zero. 

So, we now know. The culprits have been exposed. Where do we go from here? Thoughts? Comments?

This is the life...

I've spent the last week with family on Cape Cod. There is nothing quite like the experience of spending a quiet vacation on a coastal New England town. The fireworks on the 4th, the seafood dinners, the sandy dogwalks... It's the kind of place you could actually see yourself building a beautiful, quiet life.



There's a song from the musical Grey Gardens, about a reclusive mother and daughter who live in a run-down old mansion in the Hamptons. The song is called "Another Winter in a Summer Town". The song is a metaphor for the depressed, aging daughter's life in the house where she once was a blooming socialite. However, I can't imagine life in a beautiful, quiet coastal town being anything short of wonderful. I could live quite happily on clams and Cape Cod Beer. Though, I guess life is what you make of it. There are miserable people in paradise and happy people in the winters of Minnesota. (You snow-belt people are cray-cray).



It's our last night here. Sad to say goodbye to the Cape, but there's always next year!